In May of this year, the owner of a soup dumpling in Wuhan, Hubei went out of business for two months to accompany his daughter in the college entrance examination. The estimated loss was 200,000 yuan, which caused heated discussions among netizens.
On July 5th, the store owner returned to the store to prepare for the opening of the store. He introduced that his daughter did well in the exam this year, the first in the city and the 97th in the liberal arts in Jiangsu Province. The scores of the college entrance examination plus the extra points for independent enrollment make it just right to go to Peking University.
The owner said that he does not demand that his daughter go to a prestigious university. As long as the daughter does her best, he will take the exam Can accept it.
The owner originally planned to have the soup bag shop on July 1. It reopened, but it just happened that my daughter could not go away volunteering, so it opened on the 5th. Nowadays, students are on vacation, and some old customers have also lost. Now the store is not very popular, and it will take some time for customers to return.
When asked if it is worthwhile to suspend business to accompany your child, the owner said that it is very worthwhile. The money can be earned and it is more important to accompany the child.
As the soup bag owner said in the video, money can be earned again, and it’s important to be with children. Children Companionship is the foundation for the growth of children. Once missed is a pity for the parents, but the impact on the child is far-reaching. Good companionship has many benefits to the growth of the child, mainly in the following aspects:
1. Accompanying to enhance parent-child relationship
The child has not been with his parents for a long time.There will be a sense of strangeness in the heart, and it is difficult to establish intimacy between parents and children. Once a child is an adult, even if the parents want to make up for it, this kind of intimacy is difficult to establish.
2. Enhance children’s sense of security
0-6 years old is an important period for children’s sense of security to be established. Children are small but sensitive in heart, parents Absence, especially the mother, will cause the child to lose trust in the surrounding environment, and may even make the child feel insecure for a lifetime.
3. Parents are role models for children
Parents have more knowledge and knowledge. In addition, parents tend to pay more attention to the education of their children and have more energy to take care of their children. Parents are undoubtedly better than their ancestors in companionship and education, and they are better objects for children to learn and emulate.
4. Conducive to children's education
Only when parents get along with their children day and night can they understand the children's temperament, preferences, strengths and weaknesses, and truly teach students in accordance with their aptitude. When children make important decisions, they can help them to make appropriate decisions and avoid too many detours.
5. Conducive to the development of character
Mothers are sensitive and delicate in emotion, fathers are more rational, and they know how to socialize and deal with interpersonal relationships. When things happen, there is the comfort of the mother and the rational analysis of the father. Children's emotions can be displayed vividly in front of their parents. Children with the company and encouragement of their parents will become more optimistic and confident.
Accompanying children also need to pay attention to quality. Some parents lack patience and beat and scold at will. Some parents take their children while using mobile phones and watching TV. Such companionship is of low quality, and children will follow their parents. Catchbad habit.
Some parents are not well-educated and worry that they are not competent to accompany their children; there are also parents who think they have money and can solve everything with money. Babysitter. In fact, high-quality companionship does not necessarily require parents to have a high level and a lot of money. They only need to spend time with their children, and they can quietly accompany their children to do homework and read books. You can also watch TV with your children and talk about your views. Or give them comfort and encouragement when they are depressed. Taking time out, calming down, paying attention to children, and admiring them is the best company for children.