For many parents, it is really distressing to guide their children to write homework. The children drew at homework and kept repeating the wrong questions, and couldn't understand your explanation. The parents were overwhelmed and anxious, and finally couldn't help but start yelling at the children. But parents should remember that children don’t like to do homework, don’t yell in a hurry, take a look at the following suggestions.
01 Why don’t children like to do homework?
There are reasons behind every behavior. Only by exploring the reasons can the problem be solved. The same is true for children’s dislike of homework. Parents can analyze the reasons why children don’t like homework, and then "prescribe the right medicine." There are several reasons why children do not want to do homework.
1. To play
To play is the nature of every child, plus the child is not interested in learning, it will make the child more likely to tend to play when choosing to play or study. Fun and relaxing games are certainly much more interesting than boring homework.
2. Poor mood
Sometimes children will not do their homework because they don’t like a teacher; there are also children who are reluctant to write because they are dissatisfied with their parents’ behavior today operation. When children are in a bad mood, they are more likely to develop resistance to homework.
3. Lack of concentration
Some children lack concentration and cannot concentrate on one thing for a long time. Especially when doing homework, you either go to the bathroom or use food as an excuse to errand.
4. Parents pay too much attention to
Many times, parents always stare at their children and keep urging them. This will only make the children confrontational and rebellious. Parents' excessive supervision puts pressure on children, and this kind of counseling method makes children unbearable.
In short, in the face of children’s dislike of homework, we should find out the real reason before we can prescribe the right medicine.
02 These coups can guide children to take the initiative to write homework!
When children are unwilling to do homework, parents should stop yelling at their children. You can try the following methods.
1. Create a beautiful "homework experience"
As the name implies, it is to create a good homework atmosphere for children, not to supervise excessively, to make children feel relaxed, and not to see the mistakes. Just yell at the children for questions; these practices can easily put psychological pressure on children and make them bored with the time of homework. Parents can accompany their children instead of "supervisors" when their children do their homework, put down their phones, pick up books and learn with their children and grow together.
2. Help the child to split up the homework tasks
When the child is faced with more and more homework, it is difficult not to be afraid of difficulties, which leads to resistance. At this time, parents can help their children to split the homework and assign the homework to each time node together with the child, so that there is a continuous sense of accomplishment just like the upgrade of monsters, making homework less difficult.
3. Allow children to grumble
Learning is not an easy task, and it is normal for children to be unwilling to do homework and get emotional. Parents sometimes want to allow their children to say that they are tired from doing homework. They can directly guide the children in the process of their complaints and tell them that it is normal to have difficulties. After solving this difficulty, they have made a lot of progress. This not only allows children to express their negative emotions, but also makes them feel that homework is no longer difficult.
4. Make a plan with your child
Parents can estimate the time required for homework based on the difficulty of the homework and the ability of the child, and encourage the child to complete it within the specified time. Communicate with children in advanceDiscuss, make an agreement, and set up an appropriate reward and punishment system.
In short, for children who do not like to do homework, parents must give full attention. Scientifically and reasonably using methods to deal with problems will help children improve their behavior. However, parents should also remember that changing the problem of children's homework must be patient.