When children enter junior high school from elementary school, apart from adapting themselves, accepting the differences in learning styles and teachers’ teaching methods, there are many physical and psychological changes.
Faced with these changes in children, parents always have to consider a lot. As a parent, always consider a lot of things for the child in advance , for this stage when the child has just entered junior high school, there are some things. What must be noticed and understood in advance, let’s take a look with Qin Teng Education now!
1. About the school system
The various systems of the school determine the state of the child’s learning and living environment during the three years of junior high school. Not only the students themselves should understand, but the parents should also know There are counts.
especially schools with straight elevations in the middle part. Some parents choose the middle part of the school because of the good resources of some schools at the beginning, thinking that it will be easier to go straight to the middle part.
If you have such an idea, you should better understand what kind of conditions and systems the school has for direct elevation, what kind of conditions need to be met, and whether there are special requirements.
2. About communication with the teacher
Many parents who care about their children’s performance will not miss this one, but communicating with the teacher should not just focus on it. The child’s grades.
Especially when communicating with the head teacher, you need to realize that your child is the person who has the most contact with the child during most of the school time. Junior high school is a prosperous period of children's independent consciousness growth, with relatively large physical and psychological changes. Parents can pay more attention to their children's learning and mental states.
Especially in the sensitive period of "second year", many children will become very different from usual, which is the so-called "adolescent rebellion."
is partly brought about by the gradual maturity of physical and mental development, and partly brought by family and study.
This stage will come sooner or later. Parents can recall their own state during this period. Maybe they are not any better than their children, so they should understand and do a good job of guiding, solving problems instead of solving them. Children, pass this stage smoothly.
3. About communication with children
Continue the previous question. If the child is in the "rebellious period" in junior high school, how should parents solve it?
The way to solve problems is still communication. The way of communication between parents and children fundamentally affects the growth and changes of children.
If you want your child to accept your ideas, it will only arouse the child's resistance. This is because the children in this period have a strong sense of autonomy, but the angle and way of looking at problems is relatively limited.
So sometimes they don’t understand their parents’ ideas, but they feel that the ideas their parents instilled are imposed on them, not what they want, so they choose to express their feelings in a confrontational way .
What parents can do is to give their children some space appropriately so that they can freely think about their own problems, and at the same time understand their children in some ways that are not objectionable, and give them appropriate care.
Fourth, about learning goals
Parents need to have a more in-depth communication with their children, about learning goals, about future ideals.
The child's own understanding of learning and whether he has a clear plan for his future, these need to be communicated to understand.
Build a good communication environment so that children do not feel uncomfortable when communicating with their parents, and can actively seek help when encountering problems, rather than trying to avoid them.
At the same time, don’t forget to pay attention to the situation of the entrance examination for high school. There will be some changes every year.In addition, there are the admission rates of college entrance examinations in various schools, and some children are not easy to think of. Parents pay attention to them and give useful suggestions at appropriate times. This is important and important for children.
5. About family atmosphere
The influence of family atmosphere on children is self-evident. Children who grow up in a loving and warm family naturally also know respect and kindness. of.
Respect the personality of each family member and treat the child as a complete and independent person. Respect children's personality differences and accept children's growth laws, and participate in and guide correctly when facing certain stages that children will inevitably go through in the process of growth.
In addition, the relationship and feelings between family members also need to be maintained. We often arrange group activities with family members and record these in a meaningful way.