A mother asked a question on XX:
The child was eight months old, and I took a lot of it when the child was born. After work, the grandmother came to help with the child. Recently, the child was so hungry and crying before breast-feeding. My husband said that the child was spoiled. Now that he knows that crying can fulfill his wish, he will definitely be spoiled in the future. It’s me as a mother who doesn’t care and spoils the child. , Has missed the best time for discipline, the child is ruined.
Ask all friends who have children or experienced friends, am I really used to my children? How many months should I start to discipline my children?
The child is 8 months old, because he is so hungry and crying, is he spoiled?
The child cannot speak for 8 months and is extremely hungry. How should he behave?
It’s okay, like everyone, don’t you know how hungry and full, silly? Still pitiful, with tears rolling in my eyes, I just endure it and dare not cry?
Human beings are the most intelligent, developed and capable race on the earth, but the cubs of human beings are also one of the most vulnerable beings in the world.
Many animals can stand up shortly after they are born, follow their mothers, and communicate simply in the language of their own race. People who are just born are far away. Even if they don’t know anything but suck and cry, they don’t have any survivability.
Crying is the link between the child and the parent. Through crying, you can tell the parent that you are hungry, sleepy, peeing, or sick... It can also be said that starting early, the baby will know that his crying is just one This is a powerful means to realize your wishes.
If the child is 8 months old, and the child still does not cry to express his needs and dissatisfaction, I am afraid that the parents should really worry about it!
Next, let’s talk about how old children should be disciplined?
Some people say that it should start at 1 year old.
Because from the age of 1, the child starts to learn to walk, learn to talk, and gradually become independent. While exploring the world, he constantly tested the parents' bottom line, and became crying and uncontrollable.
Some people also said that it should start at 2 years old.
Because the child's autonomous consciousness began to awaken when he was 2 years old and entered a rebellious stage, the angel baby instantly became a demon baby, and parents need to regulate the child's behavior.
In fact, it doesn't matter whether it starts from 1 or 2 years old!
The child grows up very quickly, and each stage is significantly different, but the child's growth is not separated, but the same line. The previous stage is laying the foundation for the latter stage.
It’s like not having experienced the accumulation of climbing, sitting, and standing. It is impossible for a child to leave at once. Nor would you say that you have never taught your children to share. They suddenly became sensible when they were 2 years old. They knew to share with their parents when eating, and they knew to share toys with their children when they were playing together.
The real education starts from the birth of the child.
Educator Montessori pointed out that children have "absorbent minds" that can draw knowledge from the outside world, continue to learn, and improve themselves. What parents have to do is to provide children with a place for normal learning environment of. Of course, this environment where you can study normally also includes parents.
Parents and children spend the longest time together. Children observe their parents and learn more from their parents than elsewhere, so parents are their children’s first teachers.
To discipline children, the first thing is to manage yourself well and provide a good example of learning.
A mother said:
You set rules for your child,Stand yourself up first.
How should parents educate their children and set rules for them?
Adults should follow the child’s natural growth process, not to rough and blindly interfere or hinder its normal development, just like the relationship between the devil of hell and the gods; the gods have the power to create, and the devil has the power to destroy .
Take a look at this mom's sharing, I want to be very enlightening on how you educate your children.
I believe that every parent loves their children, but the way of love is different, and the consequences are also very different. The deity or the devil who is a child is actually a difference in your thoughts.