Today’s question: Why is there a bear child?
I often see some children running around in public, and they scream loudly. This situation really makes everyone feel very comfortable, because after all It's outside, not at home.
But some parents don’t think there is anything when they see their children doing this, so many people will say that the bear children are doing something wrong. In fact, one of the big reasons behind this is that the children’s parents have not done it well.
The bear child spit in the hot pot, but the parents didn’t care if they taught
. A few days ago, my best friend went out to eat hot pot, and encountered such a thing. There is a family that is particularly attractive because their children have been running around in the whole hall for a while to see this and then to see that, and they deliberately made a very sharp sound. Someone has already reminded his parents. But his parents didn't say anything.
Their dishes came, and the child immediately ran over to choose the seasonings. Maybe when he came back, he ran too fast and accidentally ran into an aunt sitting at the table next to them, who had just been quarreled. I was hit again, and my heart became even more unhappy, so I told the parents directly to let them take care of their children.
What I didn’t expect is that the parents not only didn’t talk about their child, but also said that the aunt was hit by the child because she didn’t take it seriously, otherwise so many people were walking around. She was hit. The aunt was very angry when she heard this, so she quarreled with them. The most annoying thing was that the kid saw everyone arguing and even spit in the hot pot.
Now Auntie and his family became even more angry, so they called out the manager of the store. The manager understood the situation and after patient mediation, not only made the parents make some compensation, but also rejected them directly. Continue to eat hot pot in the store.
In this case: the child will do something like this, which has a lot to do with the parent
In fact, in this matter, parents have many opportunities to prevent the child from failing Doing such a thing will not make everyone embarrassed, but the parents not only did not stop their children, but also said that it was something wrong with others. It was really lacking in quality, so their children would do such things. Understandable.
Suggestions to parents:
What parents do early, the child will imitate something, so parents must pay attention to discipline their children.
Baomama knowledge time: How do parents teach their children by example
1. If you make mistakes, you must admit your mistakes.
Many parents teach their children if they do. If you make a mistake, you must admit it in time, but you don't say anything if you do something wrong, which makes the child disbelieve what the parents say. Therefore, if a parent has done something wrong, he must admit the error face to face, so that the child will take himself as an example, and he will also take the initiative to admit that he has done something wrong.
2. Pay attention to what you say and do
Because children usually have the most contact with their parents, the children will learn what they do. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their own performance in front of their children. For example, they should take the initiative to say hello to people they know, give seats to others on the bus, or take the initiative to help when they see them, so that the children will also learn to learn.
3. Go to bed early and get up
Many parents want their children to develop the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, but their children still have to play late every day before going to bed, so at this time mom and dad To see if you usually sleep well, you can play one more game or watch one more TV series. If you want your child to go to bed early, what parents have to do is to go to bed early.
Don’t always think that everything is the child’s fault. In fact, this has a lot to do with the parents themselves. It depends on whether you usually do. If you don't do well enough, your child will learn from himself.
Daily Question: Have you ever met a bear child?