"You think pretending to be happy
Recently, "Take Dad to Study Abroad" has been complained too much, four Three in the family are divorced.The children in the rebellious period made tricks, which attracted waves of scolding.
But people who have experienced it will say that it is understandable "Before my parents broke up, I didn't know at all. The day I heard the news, I was shocked and even felt that I was cheated by my parents. "
With the end of the high school entrance examination, the annual wave of divorce reappeared. Those parents who endured for so long and said "for the children", this kind of moral kidnapping puts heavy pressure on many children.
Many Chinese parents think that giving their children a complete home is the most important responsibility of being a parent. This sense of responsibility is indeed moving. Each of us hopes that we can grow up in a complete family where our parents love each other.
A quarrelsome marriage will not bring real happiness to children.
"People should have the courage to escape and end"
Song Dandan said: Originally, he only wanted a hug, accidentally added a kiss, and then You find that you need a bed, a suite, a certificate...when you divorced, you only remembered: you originally only wanted a hug. This is our love and our life.
When the relationship is in a state of insolvency, divorce is just a choice, and it has nothing to do with right or wrong.
The two have no feelings and are incompatible at home. They also pretend to be happy and harmonious in front of the children. A happy family made up of imaginary happiness can be experienced by children.
"If it weren't for you, I would have divorced early." This is how many parents give themselves an excuse, and how much trauma is invisibly brought to their children. The choice of life is determined by oneself, and the reality requires separation and decisionAt a certain time, it is better to leave calmly and assume your own choices and responsibilities.
You can also set a good example for your child and solve problems positively.
In an intimate relationship, unhappy, tolerant, and compromised Come to seek a certain stability and balance, your discomfort and grievances will show up more over time. In the long run, it must have a very bad ending. Don't give without bottom line, don't touch yourself, feel that all your youth and life are put into this. Life seems greatmany.
Only happiness and joy from the heart can be felt by those around you. Bravely face all the next in life, and bravely embrace all possibilities.
After all, it is failure to live in unlove and lies.
You can give them your love, but not your ideas,
because they Have your own thoughts.
You can do your best to become like them,
but don’t let them become Just like you,
Because life will not go back, nor stay in the past.