When a child is born, the parents will tell the child who is the father and who is the mother, but the child does not seem to have any special reactions, just look curiously. Until the child gets older day by day, he finally knows that mom and dad are different people. This is to remember mom and dad through time. Then when can the baby remember mom and dad?
Actually, babies have memories soon after they are born, but their memories are kept for a very short time and often cannot be successfully retrieved. This means that children don’t remember one or two years old when they grow up. The reason for the previous thing. Only the very special things that will be recorded by the child. Children’s memories are generally formed through these three methods: First, it stimulates the habituation of the object. When mom and dad often sway in front of the baby, the baby will have habitual emotions, and mom and dad will becomeStimulus familiar to babies. In this way, parents can be remembered by their children.
Secondly, conditioned reflex. When a certain action or thinking of a baby establishes classical conditioned reflex, The baby will show the reaction he remembers to the stimulus, which also proves that the baby has remembered someone or something. In fact, the establishment of conditioned reflex is very simple. When a parent repeats an action in front of the baby for a long timeAt that time, the baby’s brain already has a certain conditioned reflex basis.
This also warns some parents who have misbehaved, don't think that the baby is unscrupulous in front of the child when he is young, so that the harm to the child is invisible and undetectable, and It is very likely that the seeds of mental illness will be planted. In response to this problem, parents should pay attention to their usual words and deeds to create a perfect image of parents for their babies. If the relationship between husband and wife is not good, try not to quarrel in front of the children. The reason is the same as mentioned above.
Finally, it was re-schooling to save. The so-called saving by re-learning means that the baby will forget after learning a skill, but he will be faster than before in the second learning. The baby’s memory is not enough for him to jot down everything. He can only leave a little impression in his brain. Parents don’t know how the baby’s memory is generated, but the parents will teach the child over and over again what to do and what to do. What should I say. For newborn babies, parents have sufficient patience, which unintentionally promotes the development of the baby’s memory, and parents should be proud.
Although the children began to learn skills at the beginning of infancy, their learning abilities are not the same. At the beginning, they are as strong as adults. Their learning ability is basically from scratch. From birth, they have to learn every skill from scratch. This also particularly tests the endurance of parents. However, out of right Children’s love, I believe that every parent can persist until the child grows up.
There are also studies showing that children have memories from the end of pregnancy, but whether they can remember prenatal music or other, Remains to be studied. When the child has been born, his stomach is already a thing of the past. Some parents regret that they have not provided good prenatal education to their children, but this is actually not important. The important thing is that the child has been born, and subsequent training and education are the most important. Parents can't always be immersed in the previous things, what they should do now is to develop a learning plan for the baby.