Author: Jiajia rubber Church teacher
Hello everyone, readers and friends, I’m Jia Teacher Jia. I found that our Chinese parents are reallyGreat, they will save and eat on their own, but the money and wealth they save is not for their own enjoyment, but for their children to marry and become a wife or buy a house or a car. Is it good to do this in education? Should I save money for my children?
I personally appreciate what Lin Zexu said, he The first half of the sentence is like this: What if my children and grandchildren keep the money? To be wealthy and prosperous will damage his aspirations.
It means: If my children and grandchildren are as good as me, then what should I leave them for? If he is very capable, but has too much money, it will consume his will. The next sentence goes like this: What should I do if my children and grandchildren keep money? To be foolish and wealthy is easy to increase.
It means: If my children and grandchildren are not as good as me, they are very mediocre people, then What am I leaving money for him? If someone is dull but has some extra money, it will only increase his fault.
I think what Lin Zexu said is still very wise, we You can see that in the West, you will actually find many celebrities and wealthy people. Their money is ultimately donated to public welfare and will not be left to their children. In fact, they also have their own considerations for doing so. .
For example, Warren Buffett, the god of stock, donated all his property, but once his youngest son loved music very much. This youngest son came to borrow money from his father because of the development of his music career. It was also the only time he asked Buffett to borrow money. But Buffett insisted that I can't lend you. If you need money, you can go to the bank to make a loan. Of course it is an interest-bearing loan.
The younger son was very upset at the time, but because there was no other way, he had to go to the bank to get a loan. But after a few years later, the younger son paid off the loan , The youngest son said something like this. He said: What I learned during the loan repayment process is much more than what I learned from my father with an interest-free money, so I think my father’s approach is Correct.
You think that teaching people to fish is better than teaching people how to fish. Buffett’s approach explains the meaning of this sentence very well. So we actually don’t have to do it for children. To save money, the child has his own world. Too much help from parents will only make him miss a lot of social survival experience.
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