Getting along with men is like getting along with a cat. This is not an insult, but through their similar characteristics. What is the feeling of raising a cat? It used to be used to catch mice. It has strong practical functions. I don't need it now. The main reason for raising is emotional factors.
Men need independent space
Cats are special in family pets. Sometimes they are lazy and cute, but cats are more independent than dogs. Animals in private spaces don’t like beingPeople control. It usually does its own things and thinks about its own things, just like Natsume Soseki's "I Am a Cat".
Men, like cats, are particularly good to a person, and they are also relatively indifferent to a person. At the beginning, the affection for women was long and hard to separate. Suddenly he became irritable and restless. He didn't even want to talk to a woman. After a while, he returned to his original shape and became gentle.
"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", the book believes that even a manIn love with a woman, he will keep a distance from time to time, and then come back to the woman and become more intimate. This phenomenon is not subjectively determined by him, nor is it a fault, but the nature of a man.
Men need a certain amount of free space, do not like being controlled by women, and do not like to report everywhere. When he enjoys enough free space, he will soon return to the woman again. The occasional escape will remind him of the original intimacy and contact, and a strong desire for love and warmth.
Too close, the farther you hide
When a man and a woman are too close, he will lose himself. After reaching a certain critical point, he starts to desire independence, so he begins to alienate and escape Away.
Like cats, men don’t need to be intimacy all the time. You want to stay close, or even pressing every step of the way will make them want to escape even more. Keep a distance from women. Your various behaviors will only Disrupt his own rhythm. If you finish touching the cat, it still needs to smooth the hair again. In this respect, it doesn't like to let you touch it.
But cats sometimes take the initiative to find someone. This is because after he has been alone for a long time, he will yearn for love and begin to linger for the tenderness and intimacy of a woman. His attitude changes in an instant . I ignored women when I fled, but when I came back, I found that I couldn’t live.
Men always wander between intimacy and solitude. This is their nature. He wants to be independent Self, don’t like to rely too much on others, and from time to time there will be a desire to escape, which is like periodicity.
The less you don’t need it, the more you will come back
After a man comes back, nothing will happen and he will naturally renew his relationship. His feelings for women and his departure It’s the same time, no need to be suspicious, and no need to chase. Let go and keep a certain distance, leaving him with personal space.
The less you believe, the more you chase, the more men are If you want to escape, you should confidently accept such a man’s periodicity, and always believe that he will come back, the sooner he will bounce back to his original life.
When a man is fleeing, don’t talk to him, chase after him. It’s not a good time to talk. It will only annoy him. It’s like you hug a cat. If he is too tight, he will be scratched. Just leave him alone. After a while, he will come back and listen to your arrangements. At this time, you can have a good talk.