Getting along with people is a science, and it’s really not easy to do well. If you are too far away, the relationship will be weak; if you are too close, your kindness will come.
Life is like a ruler. You must have a degree. Feel like your face, don't cross boundaries.
As the saying goes, "distance produces beauty", so the best relationship between people isIt is four words: Keep your distance.
Leave a little space for each other between 1 and your partner
The way husband and wife get along is the way to grasp the distance between husband and wife. The relationship between husband and wife is very close, but this does not mean that there can be no little secrets between the two.
Especially for couples who have different hobbies, you can’t force each other to have the same hobbies as yourself.
The beauty of love lies in trust. If you hold it too tightly, you will suffocate, if you guard too much, you will escape, just like the sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will spread.
Keep a certain distance, identify with each other, and have their own circle of friends, so that you can get along with each other happily.
2 and Keep a "bowl of soup" distance between children
With the development of society, more and more parents can accept a certain distance from their children. But the distance is not too far, both sides can take care of each other, and some contradictions and troubles can also be avoided.
There are boundaries, distances, connections, and watchfulness. The best distance is "the distance of a bowl of soup."
In life, keep a "bowl of soup" distance with your children, visit them often, and send them a bowl of soup; psychologically, you must keep a "bowl of soup" with your children. The distance of "soup" will not burn them because it is too hot, nor will it cool down because it is too cold.
3 and There must be respect between relatives.
Family affection is an emotion that is hard to part with. Don’t get along with your relatives too casually. You must be respectful. You must be thankful for the help of your relatives. If you are in trouble, you should also provide timely help.
If you are willing to say something in your family’s home, listen carefully, and ask less if you don’t want to say it, don’t interfere, and don’t be unscrupulous.
Individuals have corners in their hearts that are unwilling to be stepped into by others. To respect him is to respect your family affection.
4 Between friends, moments Remember to ask for nothing
Some people get close to their friends, and they start to have various requirements. If their friends are not satisfied, they complain.
Getting along with friends like this makes people feel tired.
True friendship is pure and non-utilitarian. It's a passion for friends to help you, and it's a duty not to help you. You can't kidnap them with morals, and ask them to meet your needs unlimitedly.
5It is advisable to talk three minutes with strangers
The friendship between gentlemen is as pale as water. Some people see it for the first time, and some people see it once or twice a year. Even if you get along with these unfamiliar people, no matter how good your first impression is, you can’t be indifferent.
Don’t try to spy on other people’s privacy, leave room for speaking, don’t overpower others, and don’t look at the timing when speaking.
When people get along with each other, only by keeping a distance can we feel the beautiful existence to the greatest extent.