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"There are less than a thousand cups of wine every confidant, but a few words are not speculative".
"There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is neighboring." You will meet all kinds of people, but there are very few soulmates who can really walk into your inner world, understand your joys, sorrows, and share your joys and sorrows. However, there are very few soulmates who are willing to lend a hand in times of difficulties. Most people come and go for profit. There are not many people who can stick to it purely for friendship.
Life is like a journey, and many people It’s just a passer-by in your journey, who will only accompany you to appreciate the scenery for a while, and will not be able to walk into your inner world in the end. The destined person who can accompany you to the end and is willing to share your travel experience with you is your thoughts. Twilight, the one who has been looking forShengzhiyin.
"Things gather by kind, people are divided by groups" At each different stage of life, there is a friend you want to find. You are willing to chat with him about life and share your experience. In front of him, you can remove your disguise and expose The truestYou can say whatever you want to say, and do whatever you want. You can talk about everything, warm each other, heal each other, and advance and retreat together.
Everyone has some little secrets of their own. These secrets are not convenient to talk to family members, so life needs the role of a soulmate. You can tell your thoughts and worries to your soulmates. You will not laugh at you, ridicule you, or ridicule you. On the contrary, you will understand you, comfort you, encourage you, and keep your mouth shut for you.
The soulmates of the student days were playmates who grew up together when they were young. You have similar interests and hobbies. You can help each other in your studies, take care of each other in life, cooperate with each other when you play, and you can "blessed and enjoy each other" , When there are difficulties at the same time".
After joining the work, the soulmate is willing to help you at work, cares about you in life, and is from the heart without asking for anything in return , There are many common topics between you, the same interests and hobbies, mutual cherishment, appreciation for each other, and active help when encountering difficulties at workHelp the other party overcome and solve problems, have ideals and ambitions, and are willing to support each other and make progress together, so that they can reach a certain tacit understanding in the soul.
After getting married and starting a business, your life friend is willing to listen to your troubles when you are in a bad moodAnnoyed and complained, the person who can understand you and enlighten you at the same time. If you have nothing to do, you don’t need to keep in touch, and you will be there as soon as you call, and are willing to contribute money to help you solve practical difficulties. The exchanges between you do not involve financial interests, do not involve the exchange of rights, do not involve personal feelings, it is purely a friendship between gentlemen. The relationship between you is usually as watery as water, but you can always worry about it in case of trouble. The longer the time, the better the relationship. When you are together, you don't need to talk, just sit quietly and look at each other. The atmosphere still won't feel embarrassing.
There are also soulmates between men and women. Some of the little secrets in your heart are not willing or convenient to tell your family. You can tell him the emotional trivia and life troubles that you don’t want your family to know, and let him analyze and judge for you. Solve problems. You are still willing to talk to him about your life situation, complain about some unsatisfactory, unfair work and life, in order to seek emotional self-comfort. The relationship between you is very familiar, but due to various objective or realistic reasons, you are not suitable for being intimate lovers, but only suitable for being soulmates in life. The relationship between you surpasses ordinary friendship, but you never want to get involvedLove, I would rather keep that distance between each other and preserve the beauty.
The journey of life is very long. You can meet one or two people in your life. It’s not easy for someone who understands you. If you meet you, you should cherish it so that the limited life will no longer be available.Lonely and lonely.
Some people have been looking for the right person all their lives, but not many get their wish. Most people are in a state of "justification" at the end of their lives , Make do with my life. There are not many people who can really find a "soul mate", but basically all they find are living a happy life.
What is a "soul mate"? It means the same thinking, the same values, the same pursuit of life, the same topics between each other, mutual appreciation, mutual support, common progress, common commitment, never abandoning each other, holding hands, and growing old together.
Although a life friend cannot be a lover of each other,But it can become your "spiritual street lamp", illuminating your long life.