"I am planning our future, so you are planning to leave." It was her who invited me to the initiative, and she is also the one who wants to leave.
I am 30 years old this year and she is 28 years old this year. We have known each other for two years and we have been together for three months. I helped her get out of the shadow of two failed relationships. Enlighten her every day, make her happy, and tell her stories.
When we first met, she had just experienced a failed relationship. At that time, we became good friends who talked about everything. One month later, she fell in love again and fell in love with a rich second generation. At the beginning, I was opposed to them being together, but then she didn't listen, and kept telling me that the other person's character was not bad, and then she deleted me as a friend.
Three months later, she was broken up and rejoined me again, bringing me a lot of bitterness. I am too embarrassed to blame her again. Then we slowlyBeing a friend, she also meant to take the initiative to tease me. She is not bad, has no mind, and is relatively simple. After that we talked more and more ambiguously, one day I confessed to her, she accepted me, and then we were together.
I love her very much. We basically meet once a week. I took care of all the housework together, cooking and washing dishes and clothes, and even washing her for a bath.
About three months after we get together, then She told me that her family had brainwashed him. She was introduced to a civil servant who was the leader of her sister.
I was very angry at the time and felt that we were all together, she had me, and she didn't know how to reject others. I'm just talking about him, onlyI am the most sincere to him, and everyone else does it for fun. Just want to go, just take the relationship that she just ended, was played for three months by others in vain.
She was not convinced, and she helped others to speak. She said that I only knew that I was hurting her, and any nonsense immediately blocked me. I said I did everything for her good, but she took my kindness as a donkey liver and lungs. Before I finished speaking, she interrupted me and said she should listen to her family! Let's stop here, she blocked me.
At first, she took the initiative to tease me, but now she wants to leave me again, I really can’t figure it out, I’m so heartbroken to her, she doesn’t care at all. Why are people so cheap?
Sweetheart Guidance: Judging from your description, on the surface, her family members are opposed to it, and she herself does not cherish your feelings. In fact, your approach and communication methods are also problematic.
The so-called authorities fan the bystander Qing, she really loved others, she will not admit that she was deceived by others. Faithful words are conducive to deeds. This sentence does not apply to her. You should communicate with her in another way.
You have paid too much in this relationship, and you are very humble. You are playing the role of a babysitter, a spare tire, not a boyfriend in this relationship. You are there as long as she looks back. Never have to be afraid of losing you.
Your emotions are in a low position, giving invisibly If you have the superiority of the other party, it is easy for her to get it, so she will naturally not cherish it too much. And if you can't make her 100% satisfied, this is the deadliest.
YouIf you want to save her from this situation, continue to start with your friends, and then change the way you get along. Change yourself to improve your emotional ability. When she took the initiative to tease you, it was because certain points in your body attracted her. Your situation is not a recovery, but a second attraction. The mother-in-law's man is the least attractive, and he must be strong when he should be strong.
Through some means to be ambiguous and reunited, and to guide her to concentrate on loving you, as long as you are determined to be together, then her parents will eventually agree, and the opposition is temporary.
Founder of Sweetheart Emotional Gas Station, secondary psychological counselor. Emotional problems such as breaking up, falling out of love, and divorce are not terrible, as long as through appropriate methods and techniques, love can be restored and repaired! Emotional recovery is a matter that pays special attention to timing and efficiency. Please do not blindly check in and make repairs more difficult.