Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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We will eventually get old, it is better to choose a good posture. We will ask the topic of "old" from different angles, and then trigger our own answ

I’ll get old eventually, it’s better to choose a good posture

From different angles,

the topic of "old" is pursued,

and then lead to their own answers.

Annual rings of time

old,

is both physical and mentalReasonable,

the latter is more destructive and expressive;

old,

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is both individual,

is also group,

Regardless of whether the individual admits that he is getting old or not,

when entering that threshold,

The surrounding has been treated differently;

old,

is the present,

is also the future ,

There are elderly support,

I will provide for my own elderly care in the future,

This will never be an easy topic.

We follow up on the topic of "old" from different angles,

in turn leads to their respective answers.

Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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When you are old, why are you safe?

For post-90s 00 later,

old is just a way of self-deprecating,

they have a lot of youth "Squandering";

For those born in the 1970s and 80s,

When you are old, there is always upside and downside There are young embarrassments,

is the reality that must be faced directly;

For those born in 50s and 60s ,

old, yesThe signal sent by the body and mind,

tells you, you can’t accept it!

There are three flashes in life:

One ​​flash is big,

Erhuang is getting old,

Afterwards, there will be no more.

At first glance, the years are long, and I look back on the vicissitudes of life.

People who are still working hard for their lives,

Does anyone seriously think about this:

When I’m old, how can I justify?

Who can prepare for a rainy day,

pave the way for the old days?

Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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Who will you go with in the second half of your life?

The writer Zhou Daxin said,

In this world,

From the perspective of age,

In fact, there are only three kinds of people:

People who have grown old,

will be getting old soonPeople and

people who will eventually grow old.

Either way, it points to a conclusion:

Humans are afraid of darkness, and we are afraid of old age.

In the face of the gradual approach of aging,

We have to prepare for the day to be completely dark,

Including material, physical, and mental,

These decisionsThe speed at which it gets dark.

The sky will eventually get dark,

This is a fact that cannot be controlled,

But we want to keep ourselves

autonomy and freedom at this stage,

In these days with the greatest freedom and least responsibilities,

Enjoy;

So that day,

It darkens more slowly.

Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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Old Piaozu, where is your home?

You travel to and fro, picking up your grandchildren to and from school;

You prepare meals and wait for your children to come home;

While you are enjoying the happiness of family,

while you are suffering from loneliness and troubles,

You are always afraid of the strangeness of city life and knowing what to do,

You go from a familiar homeland to a strange city,

Although tiedBeside the children,

is like living elsewhere.

Suddenly one day, I saw your slightly hunched backs,

Although your hands are supporting your body ,

It’s still shorter than the post-90s around me, so big.

Slightly looking at you,

staring at the 90 After,

Listening to some inexplicable vocabulary,

n’t a sentence can be picked up,

The head hangs lower and lower.

For a long time, I looked up at the small piece of sky among the tall buildings,

The high-rise buildings are full of people,

but no one is familiar.

Daily One day, you adapted silently,

No complaints, lonely self-knowledge,

The kind of helplessness is more difficult than illness and there is nowhere to preach.

Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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Freezing age? Where is the secret recipe for eternal youth?

Human’s pursuit of being immortal

Since ancient times, it has never declined.

But in fact, youth is hard to stay.

A beauty is easy to grow old.

Aging is a natural process that is difficult to reverse.

In spite of this,

People’s pursuit of beauty does not stop all day,

The desire for freezing age will never end.

Experts say:

Innate foundation is the decisive factor.

living environment,

Avoid contact with physical, chemical, and other factors that cause skin aging.

Palace,

Psychology also has an effect on skin aging.

Daily care,

endImplement practical care measures that suit your skin type.

Human intervention,

This is the most critical and the most important factor to consider.

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My parents are still there, have you ever traveled together?

There are old and small you,

or in a career struggling period ,

I’m so busy every day,

Or I’ve broken my heart for my life and my family,

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Being surrounded by children.

Maybe in my heartOne thought:

Take advantage of your parents’ health,

Take them to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland,

Taste foreign customs.

But more often, it's just a flash of thought.

But even if it is

It’s better than no one-day trip or picnic,

will also keep parents happy.

During their healthy time,

see the world more,

Due to material conditions when you were young

the unrealized travel dreams,

is a filial piety,

is also a due deed of children.

Actually,

what they care about,

is just your company.

the handle of time Parents and your roles are switched,

They begin to make no secret of their dependence on you.

They Raise us to grow up,

We accompany them to grow old,

Use companionship, use travel,

Smear the remaining space of life colorfully.

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Accompanying is a love confession

We can do it for the children

Spent time and energy without complaint,

We can do it for our parents

More accompany and more gentleness?

Thinking children

Don’t fight or grab, cry or make trouble, don’t cause trouble,

Don’t dare to be selfish, headstrong, or ignorant.

For elderly parents,

Children are their "adults",

Behind every child who is at ease,

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All have sensible parents.

Although the vacation is long, the company is not long;

Family affection is still there, but communication is little.

Stop comforting yourself,

Parents can live well by themselves;

Stop comforting yourself,

When you have money, go to filial piety to your parents;

Stop comforting yourself,

When you have time, go back to see your parents;

Don’t wait for them

to hug them when they are old like a shadow.

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Ten follow-up questions about “getting old“, all of them are heartbroken. Have you been recruited?

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How about love when you grow old?

When you fall in love with someone,

The brain secretes a large amount of dopamine,

It maintains your passion for him (her),

Sweet and full, like glue and paint.

If we are on the long road of life,

When our gray hairs are crippled,

Have one hand to hold,

Have a shoulder to lean on,

One person speaks for himself,

I still feel shy and sweet when I think of my first acquaintance,

I think of thanking each other all the way Accompany,

No matter how old you are,

Love is not old.

The so-called wife,

is like this:

From youth to twilight,

Long old people will never leave.

The so-called love,

is nothing more than the details:

One ​​look

One ​​call

Holding hands at once

A hug

……

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What to take home for the New Year and holidays?

Gifts are never material,

Some people use it as a social means, you come and go,

Some people use it as an emotional bond and take great pains,

Some peopleUse it as guilt compensation, for fear of not being expensive,

Some people are insensible and ignorant, so let it be.

In relative terms, gifts from parents and grandparents to children and grandchildren,

often contain emotional Factors,

Behind those seemingly simple or even shabby objects,

There are intentions you don’t know Deep.

They are like a page made of a pink blower,

Heavy and clumsy, but real and sincere,

There is a smile on his face, heavy and full.

And what we give to our parents,

Most of them are money and applicability.

Sphygmomanometer, massage chair, mobile phone...

I can’t think of it,

Then give money, it’s always right to give money,

I thought to myself,

Give me the money, what they like to buy.

Actually,

They need,

is never something money can buy,

such as health, such as companionship,

For example, seeing the big family gather together and enjoy themselves.

I believe that every elder,

The greatest wish is to be healthy and safe for their children.

Live with dignity.

They want to be company but they know the difficulties of their children,

They are afraid of getting old but don’t want to drag their children down,

They look forward to the New Year,

but I am also afraid of being deserted after the excitement.

Chinese New Year holidays,

Don’t forget to bring gifts to your parents,

No matter what you bring,

There must be a gratitude, nostalgia and companionship.

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Life is out Drama, will it be the Spring Festival Gala in your old age?

Zhao Baoxu, a political scientist and famous professor at Peking University,

His wife Chen Sikou is old Understanding of life

are two goals:

One ​​is to be healthy and happy,

The first is to treat the laws of nature correctly.

This admirable elder

If you say it, if you do it, then it will work.

She spent her old age as a Spring Festival Gala,

Full and colorful,

Even the curtain call is a climax.

She didn’t treat herself Life

based on the evaluation of others,

never put one’s own old age,

exhausted Savings and time,

become customized under the standards of others.

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Not deliberatelyIs it difficult?

Chen Daoming, chairman and actor of the Chinese Film Association,

on his 60th birthday On the eve of the eve,

wrote an article about "Useless to Take Care",

the article recalls His own path to growth,

analyzed the gains and losses in his career,

His summary is:

Because I did not deliberately fight for it,

We have the same as today.

Yu Kuo When entering old age, build a civilized mind.

Rather than saying that Chen Daoming is summarizing himself,

He is expressing his attitude for himself

the upcoming old age,

that is: not deliberately , Be yourself.

The first half of life is addition,

Continuously absorb, collect all the way,

When you reach 60 years old, you should do subtraction.

Subtraction is not reduction,

but desire Inventory and cleanup,

Only by taking things lightly can we see the years more clearly.

Can do Subtraction, because of addition in the past few years,

Let our lives have been "overloaded", we must reduce it.

The standard for subtraction,

is to ask your heart,

Shut down,

Listen to the echoes deep in your heart.

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