How should a divorced woman regulate herself? Subtract yourself first

2020-08-02 16:52:14 0 Comment 539 views
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On the last day of the first half of 2019, I decided to let each other go and go through the divorce procedures tomorrow. We were introduced to each o

On the last day of the first half of 2019, I decided to let each other go and go through the divorce procedures tomorrow. The second half of 2019 started with divorce.

I have known him for five years and married for two years. We were introduced to each other by our family, and I still remember the first time I met. I was 24 years old and he was 25 years old. I wore a Christmas green jacket and was later called a Christmas tree by him. He is sunny, talkative, and outgoing, which complements my introverted character, and it attracts me because of this. At the age of 27, both parents feel that we have known each other for a long time and can get married. At that time, I felt that he was of good quality and the family conditions were good. I didn't meet anyone more suitable than him, so I got married.


How should a divorced woman regulate herself? Subtract yourself first


Marriage Later, I discovered that the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was just a problem. I tried to communicate and compromised, but still couldn't solve it. He said that separation is the best choice, and the two sides let each other go. Before countless times, sad, sad, Heartache, when it comes to divorce, I feel very calm and reluctant. Explore my heart carefully, maybe as he said, I have never loved him. I really love myself.


How should a divorced woman regulate herself? Subtract yourself first


To sum up the reason for this divorce, it is still because the growth pace of the two parties is inconsistent. Now my salary is more than twice that of his. He doesn’t want to mention the machismo. When he knew himI thought he was clever and clever, but later discovered that he didn't have a skill, no matter how clever he was, it didn't help.

After the divorce, there are a series of things to deal with. Because of the failure experience, I lose confidence in myself; then I move back to my natal home, and my neighbors and colleagues will have some gossip. For girls, you must be strong at this time and read more inspirational books. I like reading books, especially this year. I am keen to read books about renunciation, minimalism, and subtract my soul.


How should a divorced woman regulate herself? Subtract yourself first


Decide After the divorce, I was relieved. At least I don’t have to meet the mother-in-law I don’t like. I don’t need to adapt to his habits anymore. I am also very free. Try to take care of yourself and your surroundings. Find your hobby, work hard to make money every day, and live a good life.

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