1. After so many days I have lived by myself, there will always be someone who will accompany you through all the remaining festivals without fail.
The husband is the left hand! My wife is right-handed, and she always feels nothing when she touches her right hand with her left hand!
When one day! The left hand is bleeding, the right hand must help stop the bleeding!
When one day, the left hand is itchy, and the right hand must be scratched!
When one day, the left hand is tired, and the right hand will definitely help you with the burden!
So, you don’t have to dislike your right hand, and you can’t dislike your left hand, because the left hand pats the right hand, and you can have a wonderful life!
2. Fun is the prerequisite for making friends, not useful. Many people get it wrong.
3. If you cry because you missed the sun, you will also miss the stars.
4. With material independence, coupled with the beauty of feelings, you will live happily; with material independence, even if you lose feelings , You will live happily. Expect to rely on others for happiness. Once you lose it, you will have nothing. The stupidest person just doesn’t work hard and hopes to meet someone who loves you forever.
5. Physiology You can’t hold back urine, you can’t hold your mouth in life, you can’t hold back words in life. Many people’s troubles are caused by this.
6. Anything that can be said thoroughly is basically relieved. You must know that the knot is not clear, or even cannot be said.
7. Whenever there is nothing we can do, we love to say and let the flow go.
8. If you fall in love with someone, please don't show off or promote it, just love it quietly. Because love is your own business, It is impossible for others to understand your feelings, nor is it possible to empathize with your throbbing. Don't show off because of vanity, the ending of showing affection is often not very good. In fact, the best love is nothing more than being together for decades, and time is the best proof of love.
9. Everyone will have a very difficult time, life’s embarrassment, work Frustration, academic pressure, loveThe panic cannot last all day. If you survive, your life will suddenly become brighter; if you don’t survive, time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don’t have to be afraid.
10. Time has gradually taken away the youth and frivolousness, and also gradually settled the warm and cold self-knowledge.
11. [Psychological self-defense techniques make you happy again] 1. Learn to stop. "Sorry, I still have work to do" is a natural defense method. 2. Learn not to argue. Say "Maybe you are right" and continue with your own business. 3. Learn not to be entangled. 4. Learn to unconventional. Deal with negative people appropriately in violation of routines. 5. Learn to talk about matters. 6. Keep a psychological distance.
12, Being alone is a special ability. I have always envied those who have internal resources and can enjoy being alone, because being alone gives you an independent space and a freedom. These are things that people call "Yes" but are actually afraid: In life, nothing is more fearful than being alone. They are afraid of being silent, afraid of the silence when they are alone with their own thoughts and long inner monologues.
13. No matter the closet How many clothes there are in it, the ones I like to wear the most. No matter how many friends there are in life, the ones I can talk about most are those. So people become mature,It is nothing more than to understand which ones are the favorites, and then start to cut. Unrestricted possession is precisely not understanding one's own performance. Learning to live a minimalist life is often the key to grasping the point of life. Simplicity is the ultimate. —— To grow is to add, and to mature is to subtract.
14. If your own conditions are not good enough, you will either try to change yourself or learn to be yourself Ridicule, some people don’t,Go to the page of Gao, Fu, Shuai, Bai Fumei and comment, "Are you rich if you have money!" "A person like you doesn't understand the difficulties of life!"...Poverty and ugliness are not terrible, the terrible thing is to rely on the poor to sell the poor, and the ugly to sell the ugly ; It’s not terrible to live hard. What’s terrible is to live ugly, and want others to live ugly as well.
15. To live real, no matter what others think of you, even if the whole world denies you, you still have to believe in yourself. Say well to yourself that to be happy, you don't need to think about whether anyone cares, but a person can actually be wonderful. When you are sad, you can cry very embarrassed and embarrassed. After the tears are running dry, you have to raise your head and smile beautifully.
16, Only great idiots will care about the opinions of others and take care of the feelings of others in everything. Because their ambitions are too large, they have always refused to believe in the truth of "difficult to adjust", and always wishful thinking to satisfy everyone's appetite. , But I don’t understand that turnips and vegetables have their own loves. It’s impossible to get everyone’s approval, so they can only live in other people’s world with fear. Sad.
17. You Sooner or later, you have to get used to being alone. No one will take you as a treasure. No matter how difficult things are, you have to smile, even if you pretend. You have to learn to be unsympathetic to others, get out of the way, stay, but you have to Learn to cherish, there are not many close friends, do you really wantOnly oneself? Remember to forget, don’t live in sorrow and sorrow, don’t be so capricious and naive; you must live beautifully alone.
18. You often think about the world too well or too badly. People think too well or too stupid, you have not chosen a good angle to see the world, you have not accurately measured the good or bad of life, everything is not as beautiful as you think, and everything is not youThinking so unbearable, the wind is very gentle, occasionally rain, and the wrong posture will make you too tired.
19. I used to think that my personality fits a lot of people, what kind of Friends can make friends; later I realized that making friends may not be difficult, but the difficulty is to become a confidant. There is really a magnetic field between people, and you can feel it when you touch it. Some people can see you right away, some people will neverWill have a deep friendship. It's not bad, but the magnetic field does not match. So it’s really lucky to meet someone with the right taste, thank you for meeting.
20. There are some simple principles that many people don’t understand, and they can solve them by themselves. I like to trouble others easily, and feel that they are friends and have an obligation to help you, but I don’t know that sometimes because of a friend relationship, it is difficult to refuse even if they cannot help you. It's love for others to help youDivide, not help your duty. And in the final analysis, life is to rely on yourself, want to rely on others for the rest of your life, want to be beautiful!
21. Some people say: Being stupid is a kind of courage. In fact, I want to say: Courage is actually a kind of foolishness. The difference is that if you succeed, it is called courage. Failure to succeed is considered a fool. The evaluation of you by others depends on the results. But for you, the process isMost importantly, whether he is courageous or stupid, keep going, stupid and happy.
22. If you have done something for others, do not remind them to remember your contribution afterwards. If someone has shared his weakness to you out of trust, don't use it to attack the other person to prove your strength. This is a noble act. Do not easily challenge and test humanity. Human nature can't stand this. What it needs is preservation, room, blocking, and covering.