I believe everyone has encountered a similar situation before eating in a restaurant When I was deeply intoxicated by the food, I suddenly found that there was an "uninvited guest" and a hair in the bowl. Perhaps the next reaction of most people was to call the waiter and let them solve the problem.
But have you ever thought about how to deal with this problem if you are at home?, Especially when the child is next to him, is it also yelling? Different mothers’ handling methods reflect high emotional intelligence.
It is the same hair in the bowl. The different practices of the two mothers show what high EQ is.
Remember to take it with a friend once The child went to the amusement park to play, and was tired of playing, and was about to eat something. Just then the child’s grandmother called and said that the meal was ready and waited for us to come back to eat. Simply the amusement park was not far from home, so I invited colleagues to come and eat. .
As a result, when everyone was eating very happily, the colleague’s child found a piece of hair in the bowl, and the child immediately became unhappy, and said to my mother what this is. I stopped eating.
At this moment, my mind immediately didn’t know how to answer. I looked at the child and then my mother-in-law, thinking how to resolve it? At this time, my colleague directly allocated the child’s meal to Put it in your own bowl and tell your child that it’s okay. I’ll serve you the meal again and eat it quickly.
I am very grateful to my colleagues for this way of handling this matter. After all, my mother-in-law is older. Now, it’s normal to have such a problem. Occasionally, hair will fall out when cooking, and the elderly may not notice it.
ButIt was at that time that one side was a guest, and the other was an elderly person. If it was not handled well, it would make the child cry and not eat, or make the mother-in-law feel uncomfortable. But my colleagues’ approach is very good. It calmed the children’s emotions without causing family conflicts. For this, I am very grateful to my colleagues for their actions.
Netizen @冰冰棒 said: I remember a family dinner, my brother’s family and our family went back to the old man’s home for dinner. My mother made a large table of dishes that day. Just as the family was eating very happy, my sister-in-law was there. A hair was found in the dish, his face was gloomy, and he left the table in silence.
Later, everyone persuaded her to come back for dinner, but she just didn't come back, making this hair an irreconcilable conflict between the sister-in-law and mother.
In fact, when I was young, I always thought that the kitchen was cleaned by my mother. When I grew up and became a mother, I realized that as my parents get older, my hair will inevitably fall off. In the food or in the meal, and the parents may not know it at all, then we must handle this matter well.
1, for the harmony of the family, facing these problems, we must have a big The measure of tolerance, don’t be too extreme, ignore the feelings of others, blindly take for granted some unreasonable behavior, and learn to control as much as possible.
When dealing with things with a clear mind, you must have empathy, understand others more, and don’t affect the harmony of the whole family because of your own small emotions.
2, as parents, we must also set a good example for their children , So that children can stand in the position of others, be more considerate of others, and allow children to develop a good emotional thinking from an early age.People and things are very important.
As parents, in addition to paying attention to their children’s academic performance, the cultivation of emotional intelligence is equally important. For children, they will face many problems and problems when they grow up and enter the society. For the sake of thinking, being able to empathize with others will make your child more adaptable to the society and have a good work and life.
Parents should pay more attention to their children’s emotional intelligence training in the details of their daily lives, and they should also set up a good example for their children, so that their children can continue to learn and grow in subtle ways and become better. .