As the saying goes, when a person suffers for a while, his heart will ruin his whole life! Being poor is not terrible. What is terrible is being poor in heart. Being poor is not the biggest sin of the poor. Being poor is the main reason why it is difficult for the poor to stand up. This is because if a person’s heart is poor, his thinking will become very narrow, his cognitive abilities will also be greatly lacking, he is easy to set limits on himself, the pattern will be very small, and it is difficult to break out of the poor class. .
Generally speaking, people with poor hearts often have the following three behaviors, and it is difficult to stand up. See if you have been recruited?
1. Too much material desires, money is paramount
The two poor people prayed together piously, praying that God can give them wealth, God is sincere, and let them make a wish, and said that whoever makes a wish first, his wish will be realized immediately, and the second person Can get twice his wish!
The two poor people both want to get double rewards, pushing each other around, wanting to ask each other to make a wish first, but at the end of the fight, one of them gets angry and says loudly, "Hey, you don’t know what is good or bad, If you don't make a wish, I will interrupt your dog legs! "
When another poor man heard this, he didn’t expect his partner to be so ruthless and unrighteous, changing his face to scare himself! I thought, since you’re not kind, don’t blame me for being unrighteous. , So he was heartbroken and said cruelly God: "Okay, I make a wish first! I hope to lose an eye! ”
In this way, one of the two poor people lost one eye, and the other lost both eyes!
Too much material desire and money first is the biggest manifestation of a person's poor heart. Although it is understandable that no one can live without money, it is understandable that a gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way. It would be too sad to use any means for the sake of money, harming others and benefiting oneself, even as the poor in the story. If you continue to develop, you will inevitably become an insatiable person, and the end must be self-explosion and self-destruction.
2. I don’t understand self-love, self-sinking, and I think it’s right
A friend who has been working outside all year round mentioned such an incident. He dug a pond for a farmer in the suburbs of a certain place because the local economy is relatively backward. So he worried that the farmer could not afford to pay. As a result, people from the same village told him that this person's daughter can bring back 70 to 80 thousand yuan every year as a young lady outside, and there will be no problem with the labor costs for digging the pond. In the eyes of the local villagers, being a young lady is not a shameful thing. It is shameful to go out to work but not earn any money, and to come back with nothing to look down on. Similar to thisThere is also a phenomenon that young people who go out from the countryside, no matter what business they do or what money they make, as long as they can make money and return to their hometown, they are often promising representatives.
Poverty is indeed embarrassing and makes life difficult, but if you don’t understand self-love and self-sink, you can take it for granted, like this poor heart People, even if they are lucky enough to make money, they will certainly not last for a long time, and it is easy to go astray.
3. Too greedy, I always want to get something for nothing, and often become the "prey" of others
A man finds a wise man, complains and complains to him, saying that he was deceived by a liar.
The wise man asked him: "How did he deceive you What? "
This person said: "He toldI, myself know alchemy, can quickly turn metal into gold, and show it to me on the spot, allowing me to witness the occurrence of miracles. Then he asked me to give him all the gold, and he would help me increase it by more than 10 times. I did, but he ran away with my gold, this big liar. "
The wise man sighed and told this person: "It’s not a liar who lied to you, but your greed lied to you. Don’t push the responsibility for being lied to con man. Because you are greedy, and greedy is stupid. You hope that your gold can be more than 10 times, it is this idea that deceived you, the liar is just taking advantage of this opportunity. So, it is you who really lie to you. If you do not curb your greed, you will be deceived in the future. ”
In real life, there are many people who want to get something for nothing. As long as it is profitable, they are willing to entertain the devil with the standard of a guest. As a result, they often become the "prey" of others. This is also a manifestation of poor people. Although the magic of money is great, it "can make ghosts grind", but being too greedy can push a person into a bottomless abyss. Therefore, those who want to make money must determine their own focus and strive for it with their own strength, rather than being manipulated by a greedy heart to do things that make them regretful for their entire lives.