I love my boyfriend very much. I am always afraid of him being robbed, so I told him, but the boyfriend was very disgusted and told me: "If you are worried, you can tell me that I have my self-control ability. ."
But now there are beautiful girls out there, and I am a very ordinary girl, but men have no self-control in the face of temptation, okay? what should I do?
Answer: Originally, men didn’t have the concept of derailment in their minds , But if you are such a fugue, he is more likely to cheat.
And if you tell him this, you give the man the right to decide.
"You decide whether you want to cheat", then men are half cheatingProbability.
So don't let the man express his opinion, let him decide not to cheat.
You have to understand that the decision whether a man cheats or not is up to you.
I have said before that there is a cost for a man to change his girlfriend. If the cost of changing his girlfriend is lower than the cost of maintaining his incumbent, then men tend to cheat, otherwise men tend to be with their girlfriends. Live well.
What is this cost? Don't be the 3 things that men are afraid of.
Why is he disgusted, because you are causing trouble for him, and men are animals that are afraid of trouble, so your relationship has deteriorated because of this matter.
So instead of making trouble for men, instead of deciding whether to cheat or not, it is better to spend time on creating your own charm.
You know that you are an ordinary girl, so you should learn some skills to conquer a man from within and let him linger on you.p>
If you want to manage relationships well, you must first learn to manage yourself well.
Q2: Big cousin, I and a man who has a good impression of each other (we had a good chat and played a few times) did not have much contact during the epidemic?
This During the period, he saw some signs of girlfriends in his circle of friends (going to play with other women and posting photos), but recently he told me that he has no girlfriend, and then asked me to come out and meetFace to face chat, I thought there was still a scene.
Who knows that in a few days his circle of friends once again revealed signs of a girlfriend... Does he treat me as an 18-lane spare tire?
Answer: We will score two situations for this matter Look.
A, he has no girlfriend
Since he is single, why don't you pursue you enthusiastically, and instead go find other girls to play?
Obviously, you are not as attractive as other women.
Assuming you are a girl with a score of 70, he can chase you after you.
But during the time when you were not in touch, he met a girl with 80 points, then he would definitelyLet go of you who scored 70 and went to play with girls who scored 80.
Although girls with 80 points are more attractive, but Her success rate will be low, that is, a man is likely to fail after chasing her. What should we do at this time? The value of a 70-point girl is reflected here.
That is to say, you see that although his circle of friends has played with other girls, but still has an appointment with you, because you are a 70-point girl, the success rate of catching up will be much higher, then take 80 The spare tire of the girl is a good choice.
In case of catching a girl with less than 80 points, it won't be a loss if you turn around to chase you, and if he catches it, it won't be a loss.
This is why,You repeatedly see the reason why there are signs of girlfriends in his circle of friends.
Obviously, you perceive the existence of this situation.
Here, my cousin wants to talk about a special situation. Although the probability will be small, it is very important.
What we said just now is based on the premise that this man is a normal man. If he is a player, it is different if he is a master.
First of all, we have a good opinion of each other and we have a good conversation, but during the epidemic, we will not contact you much. This is a trick called indulgence.
Because you have been contacting you, your expectation value of him is only 70 points, but if you do not contact you every other time, then your expectation value of him will increase to 80 points. At this time, he will reach Your success rate will increase.
Think about it carefully. When he doesn’t contact you for a while, do you miss him more than before?
There are signs of a girlfriend in the circle of friends. This is a kind of social authentication. We have mentioned this in an article before. It is a man who has been authenticated. You are more likely to like him.
For example, a fruit store has a long queue of dozens of people, and another store has a few people scattered. Which one do you think you should go to first? Do you want to go to the crowded house too?
This is social authentication. Shops that have been authenticated are more likely to be favored by other customers, and men who are liked by other girls are more likely to be liked by you.
At this time, you will be eager to get his approval. You see that he originally took the initiative, but now you gradually want to take the initiative.
At this time, he will contact you again, and then verify again in the circle of friends, you may not be stretched, at this time he can easily take you down.
If he took your hand at this time and said: "Be my girlfriend."
I believe you will agree out of ten. This is the complete routine of a love master.
If you are unfortunate enough to encounter this situation, my cousin dare to say, you can’t handle him, you can only be led by him, even if you really have a relationship, you can only be led by him Walk with nose.
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